爱就像一只蝴蝶。越要追它，却越要逃避。

if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can

如果就随它自由的飞，它会在你最不注意时飞向你。

make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it

爱使人快乐，却常伤害人。但只有在你把爱给了一个真正值得付出的人时，是最珍贵的。

to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
所以，花点时间去选择最好的他/她吧

To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
给我那不是单身的朋友们
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about

爱不能使他/她成为一个'完美的人'

finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

它却可以使你找到一个帮你成长的他/她

To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE

给我玩世不恭的朋友们
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they

如果你不在乎，不要说'我爱你'。如果他们不在时，不要讨论自已的感受

aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look

不要涉足会使他人心碎的生活。

in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is

说谎时，不要看著眼睛。

to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works

最残忍的事莫过於男人让女人爱他，却是逢场作戏。反之亦然…

both ways...

To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED

给我已婚的朋友们
Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you',

不要老是说'这是你的错'，何不说说'对不起'。

but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I

不要老是问'你去哪里了'，何不说说'我就在这儿等著你'。

不要老是问'你怎　会这　作？'，何不说说'我了解你'。

wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'

不要老是说'我希望你这　做'，何不说说'我感谢你的一切'。

To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
给我那已订婚的朋友们
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how

要真正衡量包容心，不是看在一起几年了，而是要看彼此的敬爱

good you are for each other. 

To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
给我心碎的朋友们
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to

心碎的时间和伤害的深度，完全取决於你自已。

go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

难的是，如何从中学习，而不是从伤痛中爬起。

To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE

给我所有天真的朋友们
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too

要如何恋爱？--就爱吧。不要欲言又止；要互相协调，不要太固执；

persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,

要分享，且千万不要有不公平；要了解，别命令；

and get hurt but never keep the pain.
受伤後不要再记恨。

To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
给我积极的朋友们
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but

看到你所爱的他/她和其他人很快乐使你心碎

it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

但知道你所爱的他/她是和你在一起不快乐，令人更加的伤心。

To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
给我害怕去承认的朋友们
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when

当你和他/她分手时，爱受到伤害

someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you

当他/她和你分手时，更是伤痛

love has no idea how you feel.

但伤害最深的是你所爱的他/她完全无法了解你的感受